It’s the most wonderful time of your life – you’ve found the one and it’s time to make sure they know you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Whether or not you’re heading to the jewelry store with your partner, or simply browsing online, looking at rings can be the most fun and yet, the most daunting of tasks. Endless rows of diamonds will become one big blur of sparkle. Questions will abound. If your significant other hasn’t already told you, the question at the top of the list will probably be: “how do I know which size carat to choose?” If diamonds are truly forever, and you want it to represent your forever love, it has to be the right size, because that’s what matters most, right? Not necessarily.  Let us offer some tips on the average carat size and how to know which size will best suit you and your spouse-to-be. 

According to jewelry experts, the average carat size largely depends on age, location, and by extension, budget. The average size for the US couple is up from last year at 1.7 - 1.8 carats, but this is representative of the entire ring, with side stones included. If just the center stone is being measured, the average carat size hovers around 1.8 carats. Those in the Mid-Atlantic region will spend nearly $2,000 more than couples in the Midwest. Younger couples tend to choose between one and two carat diamonds, while older couples opt for the higher end. On a global comparison, US couples purchase larger carats, while European couples choose between 0.5 - 0.6 carats. 

What is a carat, anyway? While social media might have you think that carat equals the size of the diamond, there is a lot more to it. Carat refers to the weight of a stone, but weight doesn’t always mean bigger in appearance.  Each diamond shows its weight differently, which is why the cut of a stone is an important consideration. Elongated cuts, such as marquise or oval, will make the diamond appear bigger, even if the carat is smaller. Two diamonds with the same carat weight can actually be two different sizes if one is more deeply cut than the other. When it comes to determining a stone’s value, remember that carat is only one of four C’s and the other three – cut, clarity, and color – must be considered. Don’t fall prey to the myth that the bigger the carat, the better. 

While trends may show that the average carat for a diamond ring is around 1.7 – 2 carats, there is no written rule that says you have to choose that size. You should consider budget, how the ring will look on your beloved’s hand, and their lifestyle choices. Know the four C’s and what to look for. A smaller diamond with excellent cut, color, and clarity can outshine a larger diamond with flaws. Find a good jeweler and come prepared with lots of questions. No matter which size carat you decide on, the most important part is that the ring symbolizes love and partnership for eternity.  

Visit Schwarzschild Jewelers in Charlottesville, Carytown Exchange, and Midlothian, and explore our assortment of engagement rings and find the one that best fits you!